We all lie, it’s almost as if it’s wired to our brains. The need and want to make yourself more prestigious and amazing ,or you just need to get an excuse to stop your boss from firing you. Good liars are hard to tell apart from the rest, especially if they are paid to trick your mind and cover up (I won’t name the profession) on what you’ve done. The good news is that there are easily noticeable signals that let us know whether the person is truthful, or truth less.
From healthbolt.net
1. If the liar actually believes they are lying, and that it is wrong, then watch for negative self evaluation gestures. These are usually touching of the nose or ears. Yes it sounds silly. Yes, we almost all do it. No, we don’t realize it.
2.Eye contact almost always weakens during the actually telling of the lie. Except if someone’s doing that “look in my eyes and tell me” thing. In which case eye contact is mandatory.
3. Most liars tell lies “palms down”. It’s a subconscious move that is defensive and deceptive. Showing someone your palms makes you feel vulnerable.
4. Most liars are also slouchers. Our backs naturally straighten when we are proud and confident. Liars faking confidence, are rarely either.
5. Humans eyes generally move up and to left if their brain is doing visual or audio construction. They will generally move to the upper right when doing recall. Just remember: Liars go Left, the Righteous go Right.
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